Advice for Caregivers on Self-Care and Mental Health

Parents in particular, who provide care for others, frequently devote so much of their attention to others’ wellbeing that they forget to take time off for their own mental health. As to the KinderCare Parent Confidence Index, 51 percent of parents believe that they are never able to take a break from being parents. As a result, they struggle to give their families their best, their energy levels drop, and their emotional tanks nearly empty.

In order to be there every day and attend to the needs of the children, it is crucial for caregivers to look after themselves. It’s just not possible to pour from an empty cup. Parental guilt frequently arises when they put their personal needs first, but in the end, it’s a win-win situation since it teaches kids how to prioritize their own mental health. It’s a fantastic idea to start practicing now that May is Mental Health Awareness Month.

Here are some pointers for taking care of your own mental health in the midst of the chaos of parenthood:

Begin Modestly

Easier habits appear to emerge more quickly. Commencing the process of replenishing and reinvigorating your vitality, even for a short while each day or many days each week, is a wise move. Whatever you choose to do as a reset—journaling, practicing gratitude, working out, or reading—what matters is that you intentionally set out time to accomplish it.

Request Assistance

Discuss your requirements and objectives with a loved one. Ask them to support you in taking breaks as well as to assist in reminding you to do so. One of the most important steps to guaranteeing your positive wellness as a caregiver is accountability.

Utilize the resources that are already available

Make use of the resources nearby, such the daycare facility where your child attends, by adding 15 to 30 minutes to their daycare schedule a few days a week. It’s crucial to know that they’re safe and secure while you take a break, so you can rest easy.

Establish boundaries with your kids

While you are taking some time for yourself, let them know what that will look like. Tell them you’ll be back to play, read a book, or perform goofy tunes. Tell them what they can accomplish, who can assist them if necessary, and when they may anticipate your return. Say to yourself, “This is what I need to feel strong in my body and mind.”

Set an example for others

Children imitate the actions of their caregivers and are sensitive to the attitudes and moods of people around them, as any educator or parent will attest to. As they observe you making intentional time for yourself, they will eventually pick up the skill of taking time for themselves and become more self-assured in creating such times.